As parents we all have different triggers. You know the things your kids do that bring you from 0-60 in 2 seconds? My triggers pop up when we are running late or when one child hurts another. I created the peacemaker one day after asking God to help me have more peace in my home and show up better in my communication with my children. This is a cheat sheet designed use in the moments when you are triggered, and instead of relying on will power and patience to say and do the right things, you just follow the list. I laminate this card and keep it in my pocket, purse, screenshot it and put as a screensaver on my phone. Overtime this has helped me develop the tools to help me react in the way I want to with my kids even when I am triggered. I know it will help you too.